The Chain

A devastating personal testimony and a searing indictment of persistent misogyny. In January 2017, Chimene Suleyman was on her way to an abortion clinic in Queens, New York with her boyfriend, the father of her nascent child. It was the last day they would spend together. In an extraordinary sequence of events, Chimene was to discover the truth of her boyfriend's life: that the man she’d loved had gaslit, lied to, stolen from, and painfully betrayed her and many others. In this spellbinding memoir, Suleyman exposes one man's control over many women and the trauma he left behind and celebrates the sisterhood that formed in his wake despite—and in spite of—him. With radiant prose and incisive observation, Suleyman questions society’s complicity in allowing those who would do women harm to flourish and contemplates why others remain silent witnesses by accepting and normalizing shameless behavior towards women. She demonstrates how women themselves are acculturated to perform prescribed roles of giver and nurturer, to be self-sacrificing and subordinate, and to bolster the egos of others by remaining silent and ignoring their own protective instincts. A soul-baring story, brilliant cultural critique, and celebration of the healing power of sisterhood, The Chain is a book for any woman who has questioned her relationship and buried her doubts, for any woman who can't quite identify the source of her unease and for any woman who has been sheltered by the fierce protection of her female friends.    A gripping investigation into modern misogyny, this memoir uncovers: Gaslighting and Deception: Unravel the calculated web of lies spun by one man—from a dying mother to faked mental health crises—designed to control, isolate, and exploit the women who loved him. Emotional Abuse: A raw, unflinching look at the subtle and overt tactics of emotional abuse, providing validation for anyone who has ever felt crazy or questioned their own reality in a relationship. The Power of Sisterhood: Witness the incredible story of how his victims found each other, transforming their shared trauma into a powerful and unbreakable chain of support and healing. A Feminist Critique: An incisive indictment of the societal structures and cultural norms that enable predatory men and silence the women they harm.